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Hi, I'm Dave Steve Kandey, you can call me just Dave!
I'm an introverted, phlegmatic, creative and complex person, but I do like simple for sure -as it always be when my perfectionist barricade breakdown-


I do like organizing something, learned it a lot from my High School (SMANSA Balikpapan). I graduated in 2015 as a Civil Engineer (UNSRAT Manado) and Water Resources for Irrigation System was my speciality.


I've been joining Christian Student Movement from 2011 and in 2016 I'm focusing myself in PERKANTAS Sulut as an Alumni, and still preparing to take Master Course abroad!


I do interest in music, game, go-green-movement, Bible study, Musical Stage and Christian Student Movement.
Feel free to contact me.


Anak Kost Part I

"you've got a mail!"

okay, hey guys!
since Glee has a month break mungkin untuk minggu minggu ini akan diisi postingan pribadi, sooo buat yang nyari link download Glee baru ada tanggal 2 November (mungkin). Keep waiting!

okay, so what for now? sudah lama ga posting sesuatu yang ber'bau' pribadi, meskipun bau-nya ga bakal ngalahin bau enaknya terang bulan keju susu udah gitu susu-nya banyak, meskipun sedikit berminyak tapi ya keju-nya ituloooooooh, WAW banget, udah bukan w-o-w lagi tapi w-a-w! Oke, sorry kalo sedikit menyimpang, tapi bener! di Manado ada satu terangbulan yang kejunya banyaaaak bangett! banyak banget! meskipun harganya 19.000 IDR yang cukup berat untuk cemilan seorang anak kost :P

gatau juga kenapa pasang gambar ini, ini namanya klapertart :D well just info

ngomong-ngomong soal anak kost, sekarang (meskipun sudah sekitar 4 bulan) saya nge-kost, apa sih suka dukanya jadi anak kost? Jawabannya 'banyak'. Meskipun masih pemula dalam hal kost-meng-kost, but at least, udah ada pengalaman ya kan?

okay, sudah ditentukan, topic untuk postingan kali ini adalah Kehidupan Baru/ Anak Kost Part I

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Awalnya senanggg banget sama yang namanya nge-kost, kenapa?
1. We're FREE! "we're free...we're free.. we're free like a bird a no one can bring you down..." well yang terakhir tadi nyanyi.
2. We can do all the thing that we wanna do, misal: nonton film sampe malam, pasang laptop dari matahari terbit sampe terbenam kedua kali. (well buat yang bingung itu artinya 1 hari 2 malam)
3. Kita bisa decorate our room as comfort as we want!

Ya, mungkin itu sudah jadi 3 alasan, kenapa nge-kost itu enak. Kalo ada kata enak, well there will also be kata GA ENAK. (HUAHAHAHA here we go!) well yang terakhir tadi 'devil laugh'.

Apa sih ga enaknya nge-kost?
1. Kita bebas, ya kita bebas, artinya kita juga terbebas dari kebebasan kita yang dulu. Buat yang bingung, jadi dulu kita bebas makan, bebas dicuciin baju, bebas nda bersih-bersih tapi ga bebas karena dijagain mulu, sekarang well the reverse one, coba lihat dan terka, karna gak akan ditulis disini, sakit hati bok nulisnya :'(
2. Yes, we can do all we wanna do, BUT kita juga harus pintar managemen waktu, karna waktu disini, IT'S ALL YOURS, no one will manage it for you. Kita harus pintar-pintar jaga waktu, misal: kuliah pagi, dan ada 3 film nganggur di laptop, well pilih A.Babat habis filmnya sampe subuh, B.Tidur karna besok kuliah? If you have to choos, what will you choose? If you asked me what will I choose, I'll choose C.Liat dulu filmnya bagus apa kagak :P. Oke yang terakhir tadi cuma joke hehe. Intinya kita harus bisa manage waktu sendiri, soalnya INGAT, udah ga ada yang bangunin pagi terus siapin makanan.
3. Pintar jaga kesehatan, well ini yang terpenting juga. Kalo kita sakit di kost, who cares? mungkin kalo ada temen deket satu kost ya mungkin dibantu,BUT itu masih mungkin, kalo ga dibantu, nahloh! Terpaksa ke dokter ya kan? iya kalo bisa jalan, kalo kagak? nahloh nahloh... well bukan bermaksud nakutin tapi ya silahkan dipikir lanjutan ceritanya kalo itu bener-bener terjadi :P
4. Managemen UANG, this is what they called HELL WITH SUNBURN FIRE, apa artinya, ga penting (baca: ga tau) yang jelas uang uang uang dan uang adalah masalah terbesar dalam dunia perkost-an. gausa tanya kenapa, pikirin aja sendiri (well yang terakhir itu minta maap, lagi masalah disitu sih*curhat)

well sebenarnya masih banyak dukanya jadi anak kost, entah itu teman kost yang ribut atau ibu kost yang pelit ndamau kasih cemilan, taunya makan sendiri, dan masihhh banyak lagi :D

ya tapi aku bersyukur sih sekarang sudah jadi anak kost. Kenapa?
sekarang udah mulai belajar gimana jadi mandiri. guys kita terlatih mandiri itu mulai mungkin bisa dimulai dari punya kamar sendiri, tapi itu gak cukup, mandiri itu bisa sangat dilihat kalo kamu jauh dari orang tua dan kamu ngelakukan semuanya sendiri. That's what i called the real MANDIRI, not the other mandiri that have blue and gold logo. well buat yang masih ga ngerti, itu bank mandiri -______-

sekarang juga aku mulai ngerti kenapa dulu mama dirumah itu marah kalo aku cuma nonton TV dimana diwaktu lain mama ngerjain pekerjaan rumah. well aku ngerasain sendiri semua pekerjaan rumah, ga cuma satu, tapi semuanya. your kost is your second home, so you have to clean ur kost, clean all the thing in it. and it was HARD

sekarang juga aku ngerti kenapa mama selalu pelit disaat aku mau beli ini atau itu. well, duit keluar ga sembarangan cuy. Duit butuh di manage, biarpun duitmu banyak, one day, kalo kamu ga belajar manage uang, itu bakal habis percuma. I HAVE FELT IT GUYS. I have felt when duitmu udah ga bisa ditarik lagi dan yang tersisa dibawah 20000 IDR. And you have to think what will you eat, what will you do, dan banyak pikiran aneh lainnya yang bakal muncul.

yang terakhir, sekarang aku juga ngerti, kenapa sih orang tua khawatir sama anaknya. well 17 years together with family, and 1 month without them, it feels WEIRD, how about 4 month? you can feel the lonely, with no one here, you will start to say "Aku mau pulang" but you can just go home like membalikan telapak tangan. You have to move and go on!

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Well, you have known my experiences here, jadi anak kost, what u guys think? You can handle it or not? If I can, you have to believe that YOU CAN. :D

Sebelum pikir untuk kost, jangan punya mental anak rumahan, karna ga sedikit orang yang ga tahan hidup kost, akhirnya pulang CUMA karna ga tahan. well, college life is not as easy as you think. IT'S CHALLENGING!!

That's me, how about yours?

thanks for reading
davestevekandey

is this what they called 'alone'?

"you've got a mail!"

It's raining outside, just like crowd people murmuring out there.

It's cold here, just like in the end of this earth.

Laptop could be my bestie, blanket my protector, and...

here I am, stuck in this room... with nothing to do...

start with playing some Miley's songs, and what I've found, "One in a Million"...

when the music start to play, I start to remember, it's just like a machine, works automatically

"there was just chemistry....

they said that good things take time... but really great things happen in a blink of the time...

all this time i was looking for love, trying to makes things work...

you're one in a million"


don't know why, it's just like a lot of things have JUST passed me, so fast

i think it's just yesterday,i was sitting on that bench, with my own 'batik' and she took that pict, and what? now, i can only stare at that photo, thinking what's my fault? Am I doing something wrong? or it just happenned that way?

...

whatever it was, just forget it

no one's need to blame of, leave it all to me, i'm fine :)

it has to end here and now, right?

you're just one in a million,

and i believe, there was two million, or maybe more

thanks for this Miley's!

and now i understand, so this is what they called ALONE, huh? I know it.

by: davestevekandey